Just writing my rants at 2am in the morning cause I'm like so stressed out and I hate feeling this way. HATE IT. I've said it so many times but yea I tend to write whenever I'm feeling down. Dunno it somehow just ease the pain away. Marrying at a young age seems to be like the trend nowadays, so why not talk about it?

I've seen so many people marrying at such young age. Not saying that it's wrong or anything as everyone is entitled to their own opinions on this matter. I, with all my heart don't agree with it at all. I can't help but to cringe whenever those who are married post a picture of themselves (I don't really care bout them, do whatever you want) and people will comment like "omg you guys are so sweet, I'm so jealous. I wanna get married soon too"

Really? REALLY? Hey guys, never knew that marriage is just about being all lovey dovey, so in love with each other and whatever. Trust me, it's more than that. When you're married, you've got a new life, you dedicate your life to something new, it's not just about yourself anymore, you have morer responsibilities especially if you were to have a baby just a year after you get married (like hello, can't it wait? Slow down yeah...)

I've seen way too many failure marriages with my own two eyes up to the point where I got really annoyed about it. Two people get married cause they loveeee each other so much that they can die if they can't be together. Few years later perhaps 10 or 15 years, they think that things are just not working out between them anymore. Oh, what happened to "you're my only one forever, till death do us apart" or "I'll love you forever no matter what"

Then, divorce seems to be the best option to be made cause now unlike before, you guys really can't stand seeing each other anymore. What if you have kids? Shouldn't you care about what they feel too? So you think that you can just have kids and then divorce and your kids are not gonna be affected by it at all? After all, only your feelings mattered right. You were the ones who decided to get married but the kids had to suffer as well.

Yes, I know not all who got married early divorced. Never did I say such thing anyway. Get married if you want or don't at all if you think you're not ready. Get kids as many as you want as long as you can be responsible end of. I'm gonna have to stress about this matter, kids are your responsibility. I repeat, responsibility. Not a burden. I've seen parents complaining about having to take care of their child and such. Then, don't bother to even have a child. You know what? Use a condom next time you do it.

I've seen parents who are willing to do anything for their children as well which I'm so proud of. You don't have to be like Victoria Beckham to be the perfect mum. Just provide necessities and if you can afford more, then give your kids their wants. Some mother doesn't cook and it's totally fine. Who said that mothers have to cook. But it'd be nice for your kids to come home and eat a home cook meal and tell you how was her day and such.

The point of this post is that if you wanna get married early, it's totally your choice. If you can balance your studies and your marriage life, then damn woman you have my respect. If you can't, just control your hormones and get your degree first, get a good job, be stable financially so that if you were to be divorced one day, you're settled cause we don't know what's gonna happen in the future.

Before you get divorced, think million times about your kids. I've used this word so many times but I've seen so many children from broken families who started to take drugs, fail in exams when in fact they were good students before, start to take alcohol and go party every night. Do you really want your kids to be like that? If you quarrel with your partner, your kids are torn on whose side to support. Your side or your partner's side. Not only that, they have to choose who they spend their holiday with. "Do I stay with mum this time or do I stay with dad? If I choose to stay with mum, dad will be angry and vice versa." Imagine celebrating Christmas/Eid not as a family.

I know things are not always meant to be in life. But if you don't try to work things out then you're the problem here. If you divorce cause you suddenly find your partner not as attractive as before then fuck you. It's not the children's fault that you get divorced. They didn't even ask for it. So, stop talking about how much you hate their mother/father over and over again. To hear it once, yeah it's fine, twice? Oh okay, thrice, hey you gotta chill, but 1000000 times of saying the same thing? I'm sure they don't wanna listen about it and it's not because they don't love you.

This is just my view based on what I see in daily life, my friend's life or even my teacher's life and I just feel like writing about it. No heart feelings. You have your opinion and so do I. Till next time.